Ill start this joint off ... I use to try to do the nice guy thing..thne i found out that ish dont work... when you dont want them..they want you the most..so now i dont be trying to funk with females so heavy..i more or less try to play that "friend " role..and in the long run i found out the friend roll gets more A** then the law allows .. lmao get at me

i jus go wit the flow, jus be myself and let girls come to me. if i see a girl i think is hot tho, i make sure we make eye contact and get some kinda communication going. the best way to get girls is to get EVERYONE interested so the girl who u really want looks up to u more. kinda like wut u said, it takes time but "friends" get turned in to more than friends.

o ya, and u gotta also be nice to the girls but at the same time, dont be a pushover. tease em n ish

but thats just me

yea man u just gotta spit that g (g=game) to them u know act like u want them a lot u know

i think i said u know 3 times lmao

werd ahah funny thing is alot of girls dont realize is 90% of the time a guy is friends with a girl because he wouldnt mind hittin it.

lmao .. and thats is some REAL ish right there !

lol ye thats true

Dont try so hard but dont not try at all this seems to be my roomates problem he is completey off or completly on with the game. U gotta leave that lever half up ya dig...Oh and have some confidence.... But things may have changed ive been out the loop for about three years(im wifed up)

I just crack jokes that make them laugh and act like I am around my guys friends, the girls get jealous because I start talking about or to other girls while they are around. I don't don't do that friends ish and try to be their friend cuz that's all you are goin to be to them, like my best friend. He might have a lot fo friends that are girls, but they don't find him attractive in the sexual way. You gotta make them want you, while letting them know that you want them, but you ain't gonna wait or be a pushover for them.

I becaume her best male friend and when she get use to me i just start to act different, dont have time for her anymore and all that ish so she wonna bring back thinks like they where before so she gives me.... And if that didnt work after i becoume her best friend i becoume best friend with her best girl friend, it works everytime.lol

dont force it u gonna lose.just let it flow.

Yep that to, im ready to wait for months...

with some drinks and ass-slapin at weekends ;)

lol

Pfff just be yourself and it's stupid to brag about girls on the internet.

a yo decadez the best advice i can give you on that subject is be yourself! unless your an embarassment to yourself, then be tom cruise (he's not a bad choice, short though). but seriously...being yourself is the best way to attract women who will like you for you (for the most-part). don't hesistate to make yourself look good as much as possible. not arogant, you gotta finesse. keep habits that you wanna have such as...if you wanna sleep with women anywhere! get into the habit of hittin on women anywhere! etc. but most important. whatever you do! you a male right? serious question. men are the rough-out primal , simple end of the species. don't portray "feminine" qualities to all women (depends, situational) but as a rule of thumb don't be who you are. and who the expect you to be without being predictable! i hope that helps you out also maybe a little reading won't hurt. http://search.barnesandnoble.com/booksearch/isbnInquiry.asp?z=y&EAN=9780735200302&itm=1  i've read this book and can personally say that it helped me. and it could help most. not hefner-types! ok homie holla!

Some of you don't need the help so skip this reply :)

As the old man here, I'd say you have to know your audience. What I mean is that game that works on a 15 year old classmate will not fly with a 19 year old college student which wont fly with a 26 year old etc...

At different points in their life, women are looking for different things.

As far as I know there is no 100% sure fire way to be successful. If you know the girl likes to dress up and show off her clothes and jewelry, you'll have to approach that different than the cute girl that plays on the schools softball team. Ya dig?

For the seriously challenged pimps out there:

Some guys freeze up and lose perspective/confidence when a female is around, you want to lose that fear. The only way to do that is to challenge yourself to fight through it. You don't have to a mac overnight, but make yourself approach at least one girl and ask her name, where shes from etc. Even if thats all you do once you get over that you can move into other areas. like asking for her number or taking her out etc. Basically build up in steps but DO NOT sit back and do nothing. Eventually you can be yourself AND be comfortable enough to meet the girls.

There are many games that you can run on a chick. A lot. If you just want to hit and quit it fine, run a game but if you are seriously interested in someone watch out because the truth will come out eventually.

The thing to remember when running game is that girls need a few things:

1) They need to be the center of the universe. When they talk you listen. Ask them questions about them don't tell them about you.

2) They need to be the winner of enerything. Best clothes, best hair, beste everything. Women are naturally competitive with eachother even best friends. If you compliement a girl on something in front of her friends you scored big points because you have lifted her above the crowd. Even her friends are now more interested in you because sunconsciouly they want to change your mind.

3) If girls think that you're needy, they don't want you. On an animal instinct level you have to portray to her that you are a provider of food, warmth, and other needs. You don't need anyone. That makes you a good candidate because by her getting you, she has tamed the beast. She won the battle (see #2)

4) The good guys finish last. I'm not saying be a total jerk, but girls need you to suggest the things that they think about but would never mention. I'm not going to go into more details since we might have a younger audience here. Use your imagination. They need to feel as if they aren't responsible for coming up with the freaky ideas (at least initially). If you suggest something they havent tried, they might also feel like thats what other girls do and they need to learn to do it better ;) (see #2)

5) Learn some dance moves. Yeah some of you might say it sounds "ghey" but if a girl thinks you're a good dancer, she starts to want you even more. Besides it builds up confidence when you go to a club if you know how to dance.

Disclaimer: I am not a playa. Use at your own risk.

rofl ...sticky it...lmao 

Nice old man (in regards to nfx.....hehe) 
Sticky!

lmao...i know i'm late on this...but i had to reply....lol...

ya'll are a trip....

nfx is right tho..not everything will work with every woman...figure her out..then go from there...

but the main thing is the confidence....

u might try to talk to a girl and then feel like she's GOT to choose you....or that she's out of your league....

no such thing....

dat girl ain't got nothing special that you don't have and she doesn't have anything that you can't get elsewhere....
KEEP THAT IN MIND...

so when she starts playin that hard to get role...don't even spit any more game...just be like...ok

she starts to wonder then..what's going on...

like nfx said she wants to win EVERYTHING...and she's gonna want to know why you didn't choose her...even when it seems like u wanted her so bad in the beginning...as hypocritical as it may seem, women want to be chosen just like we do...but they just make it seem like they have more of a "choice" than we do....they don't...

once u equal the playing field in your mind first...then you'll act like the playing field is even...and they like that....


yep yep