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I am what I am and so are you.

by NFX on 22 Sep 2006 05:55 PM

It seems like a lot of people spend time trying to portay an image of what they're not.
 
I consider myself part of the hip hop culture because I love a lot of things in and around it. Music, grafitti, dance etc, are all things about hip hop that I am a fan and/or participant in.
 
But let me tell you what I'm not... I'm not a playa, a pimp or a a hustler. I'm not a thug, a soldier or a gangsta. I'm not iced out, ridin on dubs or rockin the trendy gear. If you saw me on the street you would not guess that I make beats. If you talked to me on the phone you would not suspect that I have a love for hip hop.
 
Next I'll tell you what I am... I'm a father, a son, a brother, a husband, a hard working man, a deep thinker and some might say a teacher or mentor.  Boring to some, but I'm keeping it real.
 
Too many people think "keeping it real" is portraying an image like being a thug, a gangsta, you know everything that I'm not. Especially if they come from an area similar to where I grew up in and still live to this day.
 
Keeping it real, means being honest with yourself and those around you.
 
If you know something is wrong or disagreeable with your inner morals and you continue to do it, you are fighting yourself. You are distracting your own self from accomplishing the things you really want in life.
 
The first step in keeping it real, is to know who "You" are. What defines "You"? I'm not talking about the physical part of you. What if your body ceased to be and your mind was somehow captured and stored in a bottle where your thoughts and ideas could still exist without any outside influence? You would no longer stress about impressing people. All material things would cease to exist. Cars, clothes, computers, websites, everything. What would you do? Who would you be?  Are you completely that person today? If not, why not? What are you doing today to reach that ideal mind state?
 
And why do i think this important enough for me to write about?
 
Because it is vital for everyone to understand and embrace who they really are. Yes it's cliche and corny sounding, but that doesn't make it false.
 
The mind state of understanding yourself gives you the power to manifest your desires much more easily. When you know what your truly want and what direction your moral compass is pointing, it's easy to get those things without trying as hard because you are following a natural path. You are no longer sidetracked by the need to show off and impress people. You are no longer concerned with things that only serve to distract you from accomplishing your goals.
 
We are all human (I hope) so we are bound to get sidetracked occasionally. Many of us just forget our inner truths when we are busy chasing the idea that something outside of ourselves can make us happy.
 
It takes work to develop your mind state but it is simple to do. The first thing you have to learn is how to acknowledge what you truly believe. The second thing is to follow the beliefs as much as possible. Finally do your best to not let other influences take you off the path. Everything else falls into place naturally.
 
So how does this relate to music production? 

When you are making music that is also honest to yourself (even if others arent feelin it)  then you can truly shine and things will come easy. The easier something is the more fun it is and the faster you will grow and develop the skills around it. 

Every great producer is great because they are being themselves and that makes them unique  - just like you. So be you.


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68 Comments for I am what I am and so are you.

spyda4ce
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22 Sep 2006 06:25 PM

I agree 100%, people gotta stop trying to be who they really are not and just be themselves and as my quote(made by me :) says) "Success isnt acheived by recreating history, success is acheive by making history"... meaning dont copycat what was already created, but create things never done before...something different! 
Slavebell
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23 Sep 2006 09:33 AM

Thats true... Im realy sick of that guys trying to pretend that they are something they not or they have something they dont have or whotever.... Ill not say their names but here are alot of guys doing exactly that. Cant say that something new cos in every forum there are those tipes of persons. Thats why im proud of myself. Cos here im exactly how im in real life. But thats becouse i realy like being me! I made alot of mistakees, thats why i wos kicked out from mods here and all... But that is olso cos i didnt pretend i wos i... they didnt understaind me so they kicked me off... But 4 days after i wos mod again!
Anyway point is i evend dont know eng that well but im mod on american forum. And i know thats becouse i dont act. I am whot i m and i like it.
Thats why many people here and in real life realy like me but many people realy hate me to.
mart85
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23 Sep 2006 12:45 PM

I hate you all...you're not gangsta enough

lol just kidding, yeah, I agree 100%, you have to stay true to who you really are, in real life and in music production, well, in everything... otherwise you won't be really happy and sooner or later it will show
SaL 2K
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23 Sep 2006 07:19 PM
http://www.myspace.com/musicbySAL2K
The one thing I hate more than almost anything else is people not being themselves, and just acting or trying to impress by being something they're not. The internet breeds these kinds of people, because there really is no way to tell who someone really is. I see a lot of role playing happening online, you never know, Jamal from south central LA could really end up being Colin from Malibu. If you can't accept yourself, how can you expect others to. 



P.S.( No offense to anyone named Colin)
jerry curls
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24 Sep 2006 01:58 AM

hey?
scuse me partna...
i'm just tryin to suck as many buttholes as possible -
cause uhhh...
nobody likes me man.
damn. i feel like everyone else now.
i need to go to some gun shows or somethin.

i'd jerk off with my left hand if it was possible.
Henry Alas
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25 Sep 2006 07:08 AM

real talk nfx..good read
The Usual Suspect
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25 Sep 2006 11:12 AM
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co-sign^
homer symson
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25 Sep 2006 03:57 PM

no doubt!
Bozo Ćurić
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27 Sep 2006 04:49 PM

U'r right! I hate u Slavebell!
Sam
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29 Sep 2006 04:12 PM

I agree totally.  The sad thing is, though, I don't feel that much of hip-hop is so much accepting of upper middle class white kids, really middle class people in general.  IIt's getting a lot better, but I don't know, as a white dude that wears ishty knockoff tan shoes from payless and wears the same Burton snowboard hoodie almost every day, the culture seems a little seperate from my life.  Kanye West did a lot for us, and I've heard stats that like 75% of rap listeners are white, but I can't help but feel a bit of an outcast.  As evidence, go to the xxl website and just read the blogs.  One of the guys makes reference to tall israelis about once per column (I'm jewish, so the ignorance really hits home).  Racism's still alive in a lot of places, white v. black, black v. white, white v. white.  One of the reasons I love the production community here is that nobody really gives a ish what color you are as long as you're cranking out good beats.  At least one part of the hip hop community is ignoring racial boundaries and bonding over a love of music.  Here's to the hope that the rest of hip hop follows.
jerry curls
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08 Oct 2006 12:05 AM

ish man.
you aint got kids, you aint got a wife and you don't have a bitch.
and i don't either. thank God.
but i bet you have a cat or  dog. that's why you do what you do and that's why we're all here.
and i'm sure glad you do.
musical genius is also unfortunately accompanied with a genius mind. - get's in the way sometimes.

you're inspirational and you got talent to boot.
funk.
timothyp
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10 Oct 2006 02:33 PM

nice one for opening up....good truths, inspirational.
Mike Letts
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05 Nov 2006 10:52 AM

I agree 150%, if you're trying to be somthing you're not you wont get far if not anywhere in life. I am a father of 4 kids, I am a husband, and a damn hard working man, i work 5days aweek and work 10/hr days. My $$ dosnt go to 'ice' or chains or whatever the sort. As soon as I receieve my check, *POOF* whata know, it's already gone.
Mike Letts
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05 Nov 2006 10:55 AM

Posted By nfx on 09/22/2006 5:55 PM
let me tell you what I'm not... I'm not a playa, a pimp or a a hustler. I'm not a thug, a soldier or a gangsta. I'm not iced out, ridin on dubs or rockin the trendy gear. If you saw me on the street you would not guess that I make beats. If you talked to me on the phone you would not suspect that I have a love for hip hop.[/quote]
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Next I'll tell you what I am... I'm a father, a son, a brother, a husband, a hard working man, a deep thinker and some might say a teacher or mentor.  Boring to some, but I'm keeping it real.[/quote]
 

I agree 150%, if you're trying to be somthing you're not you wont get far if not anywhere in life. I am a father of 4 kids, I am a husband, and a damn hard working man, i work 5days aweek and work 10/hr days. My $$ dosnt go to 'ice' or chains or whatever the sort. As soon as I receieve my check, *POOF* whata know, it's already gone.

Marshall Oliver
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07 Nov 2006 01:09 PM
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I really agree with this right here.  Manty people do confuse "keeping it real" with acting like a particular stereotype and telling others who don't act like this being "fake".  This pisses me off to no end!!!  NFX, you ARE a teacher and mentor, but I like how you don't just come out and say it, classy, very classy.  I hope someday that all of us will agree that being yourself, no matter how others think its not "real", is the realist thing any of us can.  Peace and God Bless.
Master Eleven
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22 Nov 2006 11:05 AM

ah, a philospher, eh?

"We are all human (I hope) so we are bound", the exception is here
Dan B
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07 Jan 2007 10:03 PM
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Great read, and I couldn't agree more. I gotta laugh when I look through some profiles on myspace and soundclick for a few of the producers out there. Too many seem to be cranking out beats for the sake of selling them and making another one.

On another note:

"The mind state of understanding yourself gives you the power to manifest your desires much more easily. When you know what your truly want and what direction your moral compass is pointing, it's easy to get those things without trying as hard because you are following a natural path. You are no longer sidetracked by the need to show off and impress people. You are no longer concerned with things that only serve to distract you from accomplishing your goals."

Are you familiar with the 'law of attraction' school of thought? Basically, its the belief that you get whatever you think about. Check out the movie "The Secret" on yahoo videos if you're interested. Its good stuff.

NFX, I just want to say that I really appreciate this website and all the work you've put into making the tutorials. I've always had trouble learning how to use FL until I found your videos, and I learned a ton in only a couple of weeks. That's a testament to your teaching abilities.

Thanks again and best wishes
Preemium
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11 Jan 2007 04:05 AM

Hmm... not being true to yourself... that sounds a lot like me about a year ago.

I got serious with music at the age of 12 (3 years ago), and at the time, I did whatever I can to impress the cool kids in school. I claimed I was a producer and claimed beats my own, when in honesty I downloaded the best, free ones off of soundclick; I wrote down Chamillionaire's old freestyles and memorized them to battle kids in school; I put alluminum foil in my teeth (lol This isn't really lying to people, but I guess I was lying to myself), and I did everything possible to call what most of us call "fake".

Last year, my other closest friends who decided to settle on rapping as a hobby discovered soundclick and found the beats I claimed mine. God, I swear man, getting caught is the worst possible feeling, and its not because you're like "Oh ish, WHAT THE funk AM I GON' DO NOW?", but you realize that a hole is burned in the trust between you and your friends. I worked my ass off to gain my friends' trust back, and it was a relief, but I vowed that I would never do anything as idiotic as that ever again. 

After facing the truth, I decided I'd be "real" and do what I claimed I did. I got a copy of FL and began to try and make my own ish. I wrote my own lyrics and soon enough, wrote so much that freestyling isn't even a challenge for me (NO, I DON'T MEMORIZE MY FREESTYLES ANYMORE), and best of all, I actually bought my own set of grills. Everything I did was true and I "kept it real". 

I'm at a growing age, but maturing this soon is the best way for me to develop. 

NFX, thanks for this post man. 

DJ Kaoh
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18 Jan 2007 01:39 PM

theres no pint in being alive if ur just going to try to imitate someone else
Pompey Productions
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24 Jan 2007 03:50 PM
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and u know what...i think this applies to a lot of ARTISTS rather than producers....

you see too many guys saying they have to fit this "image" that is seen by the majority of the hip hop artists of today....it's ridiculous....

i know a guy who started to sell drugs just so he could have something to talk about when he rapped....cmon now...how lame is that???

people are settling for what they think is acceptable instead of being real with themselves......

i've never shot a pistol, sold a drug, or anything like that...but i've had more people call me real b/c i don't claim to do things that i don't...i work with some people who do those things and have done those things..but we respect each other b/c we both know what the other does and we respect that...b/c in the studio..it's strictly music....that's it...i dont' worry about another person's personal life...but when you start lying to try to impress people...trust me...it'll come out to the light....


yep yep
kaliwild
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23 Mar 2007 12:01 PM

that so true playa.  i have never done any of those things either but i am just as real as the next cat.  this is really getting out of control.  i know a guy who just decided to change his whole style up to seem more real.  he went from back packer to gun packer overnight! that is crazy to me.  your example is even more off the wall though.  startin to slang just for music credibility is nonesense.  we won't even talk about you won't be rappein anyways of you get locked up.  or maybe that adds to his plan to be more real.  lol.
jeffrey aay
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31 Mar 2007 08:12 AM

I am a real convict, i geuss you noticed.
I was riding in my volvo with 13 inch rims when a cop busted me on some handguns loaded with 1 gallon water each.

Geuss im too stupid to get away from it so now i have a family and keeping it real:D

Still got a 12 gauge shotgun with nice beanbags want to borow some?

:D
keith dames
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01 Apr 2007 04:43 PM

Reading this gives me the hope and assurance that there are still people out there who stand on their beliefs by "keeping it real"

well said nfx
John Goodwin
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19 Apr 2007 03:57 PM

My deep respect NFX !  Not only a good producer also a wise man!
Louis Miletello
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24 Apr 2007 02:25 PM

Yeah.. i agree NFX...

I can name a few fake thugs off the top of my head now

Yung Joc
SpiderLoc
50 Cent
T.I. (i like his music, but the guy is not what he says he is)
Camron (i like his music too, just seems FAKE as funk without dipset)


I really wish most of these hip hop artists (especially the new ones) would funkin tell the truth. Just the other day I heard BlackJak say "House on the hill, 50 mill in my bank account."

Okay, 50 mill in my bank account. #1 No one talks about you in the south that much and thats where your from. #2 North and the West aint bumpin ya ish, so that means you gotta low budget my friend. His lyrics suck ass too.

Lil Wayne is a 1 out of 700 rappers from the south that can funkin spit good punch lines and lyrics.

But yeah i had to get that off my chest. All these lien ass rappers tryin to portray this thuggish image...
J-Ron
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26 Apr 2007 08:50 PM

I did the music for a hip hop expo today, and before my people came on, I watched the end of one groups show.  They kept talkin' about gats and ice, but they didn't even have on jewelry or anything.  Who said rap was supposed to be scary?  Who made the decision that hip hop had to be this way?  I believe in God, and that his son Jesus Christ lived a life that demonstrated the way I ought to lead mine.  If I seek to honor what Christ did, and still enjoy hip hop, then I can't and I refuse to think for evena moment that I HAVE to act contradictory to who I am.  Thanks NFX.  Real life is what it is, not what we want it to be.
KingM
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24 Jul 2007 06:14 PM
http://www.myspace.com/iammyownbard
if my mind was bottled? pretty sure i'd go mad. haha. it's the material rewards that keep me in line. if i couldn't watch recorded futurama episodes on 8 hour EP vhs tapes, i don't know what i'd do...
nash101
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02 Sep 2007 06:09 PM

church
YUNG AC
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04 Sep 2007 12:16 PM

YEH I FEEL U NFX. ROUND MY HOOD FALSE NIGGAZ GIT DEALT WIT ITZ EASIER 2 BE SUM1 U NOT BUT WEN NIGGAZ NO ITZ BAD. BE REAL IF U SAYIN U GITTIN MONEY GIT MONEY IF U SAY U POPPIN NIGAZ POP NIGGAZ. I NO DAT SOUND BAD BUT DAZ HOW IT GO. LOTTA NIGGAZ IN DA BAY SAY DEY KILLERS HUSTLERS BUT ONLY 25 PERCENT ACTUAL GITTIN IT. 

"BE REAL OR GIT KILLT" - HUSALA
SCREWY LOC
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04 Sep 2007 02:24 PM

Thats some real talk. I  dunno why everybody HAS to be a gangsta to love hip-hop or make music, just cuz you come from the streets doesn't make you a thug, and it doesn't mean you love hip-hop any more than somebody from the burbs.
Brian Shinall
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10 Sep 2007 12:49 AM

thats some good stuff to dwell on

too bad most ppl in my city need that knowledge

and 85% wont accept it

well around my age
teachable moments
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21 Sep 2007 12:29 PM

Thank you NFX for posting this thread.  It has me thinking...

You said:  "The first step in keeping it real, is to know who "You" are. What defines "You"? I'm not talking about the physical part of you." 
In
Psalm 139:13 - 16, from The Message Bible, says:
 

Oh yes, you shaped me first inside, then out;
      you formed me in my mother's womb.
   I thank you, High God—you're breathtaking!
      Body and soul, I am marvelously made!
      I worship in adoration—what a creation!
   You know me inside and out,
      you know every bone in my body;
   You know exactly how I was made, bit by bit,
      how I was sculpted from nothing into something.
   Like an open book, you watched me grow from conception to birth;
      all the stages of my life were spread out before you,
   The days of my life all prepared
      before I'd even lived one day.

God destined us, made us, and called us and gifted us.  If we are ever going to find out who we are, shouldn't we ask the one who made us?  If your t.v. acts up, even the department store knows to refer you to the 'manufacturer'.
We are infinitely more valuable to Him than any flat screen Could ever be!!!  Why not ask HIM?

Asking Him is actually quite easy.   Quite specifically:  James !:5  says:  "If you don't know what you're doing, pray to the Father. He loves to help. You'll get his help, and won't be condescended to when you ask for it. Ask boldly, believingly, without a second thought." - (THE MESSAGE BIBLE - *THE BIBLE IN PLAIN ENGLISH)

It would sure stink if you get to the end of your life, come face to face with GOD, and realize that you NEVER EVEN TOUCHED YOUR PURPOSE. 

NFX, thank you for this website's wealth of knowledge to everyone.

God Bless You All.

By the way, that Bible I was reading out of, THE MESSAGE BIBLE, is an awesome translation.  A lot of people put the Bible down out of frustration, 'cuz they just don't understand it!!  This translation is just that, The Bible in plain english! 
Chris Canberra
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26 Sep 2007 03:48 AM

Tru dat to everyone....

NFX.. I like your post.. I fall into the same line of thinking as you.. And for any younger peeps unable to relate to that, you should pay real attention to that..

Alot of people aren't woken up or enlightened about the real issues happening in this world... I mean look at America.  You got lots of brilliant minds, but not enough people to look at your president and say " ish, what Bush is doing just ain't right.  The way this country is running just ain't right.  Why do we let these men use us like this."

In my opinion, our younger generation is getting more materialistic and that truly means we are moving away from our true essence, our true spirit.  Too many don't know how to "keep it real," and let life's superficialities take over their ego.

Now it's sad to watch "hip hop" go from the old school days to the glamour of Ice and Bitches.  That definately won't last.  But as long as we have narrow minded people, there will always be a fan base for that ish.  

I love hip hop.  I love everything about it.  But I also love trance, which opens up the spiritual side of me.  It doesn't portray the fakeness of our society, rather is acts to unite us.  That's just my opinion tho.  

Jazz is an expression of our sophisticated type of life.  I find it has some strong parallels with the urban life. Sometimes insane with emotion, other times chill and relaxed.

What happened to classical music?  The most complex in musical composition.  Don't get me wrong,  I love makin beats, but classical music is on a totally different level of appreciation. I know you can't really bounce to a nice Mozart or Vivaldi track, but damnnnn anyone who understands music has to pay some real respect to that ish.

Anyways, I kinda been running off about ish on my mind... haha.. In the end, it all comes down to doing whatch your heart really feels.  You gotta know it don't feel right to put on a front and pretend you're someone you're not.  Remember, you're your own person and never let anyone tell u your not.  Cause this life will always be full of haterz.  If you keep it real, this world will become a better  place.

One luv to everyone out there.  

- Nlytend 
Frank Pain
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25 Oct 2007 08:20 AM
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Well said

Dmarc Beats
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31 Oct 2007 07:58 PM

H EY I TELL IT LIKE IT IS IM BROKE AS HELL  AN IM MAKIN BEATS FA MONEY BUT I CANT MAKE QUALITY BEATS CUZ MI COMPUTER SUCK AZZ BUT YEA SOONER OR LATER PEOPLE GON B LIKE IF A NIGGA AGREE WIT A NIGGA U FAKE OR DICK RIDIN BUT IF U DISSAGREE U HATIN AN ish SO DATS Y I JUSS GO WIT DA FLOW AN LATE LIL PETTY SHIIIT!!! GO
OniRyo
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05 Dec 2007 02:18 PM

Sure nuff.... its like i always say about graphic design type stuff with people trying to always copy every one else's style.... "When people surrender to a commonly accepted norm, art ceases to be created and is simply manufactured"

 

Way too many people fall into that trap in all sorts of artistic fields and forget to just be true to themselves, to hell with any one who tries to shove them in a box, and above all, do what you do because you love it, not because it has a big pay check attached. If you do it because you love it, it'll show in the final result and will get you a lot farther by enjoying life rather than always bein worried about keepin up with 'the latest big trend' 

 

and for any one readin this wondering how to know what "you" is.... its simple.... if you are lovin what you are doin for the pure simple fact that you are doin it, then you are doin what you are.... if you are only lovin it cuz of the potential paycheck or the glory or whatever the hell you might get at the end..... then you're doin it for others, not for yourself.

At least thats how i see things

Slavebell
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11 Dec 2007 04:32 PM

Posted By eliteraver on 09/26/2007 3:48 AM
Tru dat to everyone....

NFX.. I like your post.. I fall into the same line of thinking as you.. And for any younger peeps unable to relate to that, you should pay real attention to that..

Alot of people aren't woken up or enlightened about the real issues happening in this world... I mean look at America.  You got lots of brilliant minds, but not enough people to look at your president and say " ish, what Bush is doing just ain't right.  The way this country is running just ain't right.  Why do we let these men use us like this."

In my opinion, our younger generation is getting more materialistic and that truly means we are moving away from our true essence, our true spirit.  Too many don't know how to "keep it real," and let life's superficialities take over their ego.

Now it's sad to watch "hip hop" go from the old school days to the glamour of Ice and Bitches.  That definately won't last.  But as long as we have narrow minded people, there will always be a fan base for that ish.  

I love hip hop.  I love everything about it.  But I also love trance, which opens up the spiritual side of me.  It doesn't portray the fakeness of our society, rather is acts to unite us.  That's just my opinion tho.  

Jazz is an expression of our sophisticated type of life.  I find it has some strong parallels with the urban life. Sometimes insane with emotion, other times chill and relaxed.

What happened to classical music?  The most complex in musical composition.  Don't get me wrong,  I love makin beats, but classical music is on a totally different level of appreciation. I know you can't really bounce to a nice Mozart or Vivaldi track, but damnnnn anyone who understands music has to pay some real respect to that ish.

Anyways, I kinda been running off about ish on my mind... haha.. In the end, it all comes down to doing whatch your heart really feels.  You gotta know it don't feel right to put on a front and pretend you're someone you're not.  Remember, you're your own person and never let anyone tell u your not.  Cause this life will always be full of haterz.  If you keep it real, this world will become a better  place.

One luv to everyone out there.  

- Nlytend 



 

yap thats smart talk man.

anyway i touched similar subject bout america here

http://www.warbeats.com/Forums/tabid/59/view/topic/postid/59488/forumid/9/tpage/1/Default.aspx#60262

Jay Why
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13 Dec 2007 08:48 AM

 RickySaL on 09/23/2006 7:19 PM
 ...you never know, Jamal from south central LA could really end up being Colin from Malibu.
P.S.( No offense to anyone named Colin)

NFX, I agree 100% Bruh, but I am on the floor.  How true this is.

YoungVito
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04 Jan 2008 04:34 AM

Some real heavy stuff there NFX. I think the reason why it's so heavy to me, is because I can relate to it. It just seems to be a trend where people have the access to a mic and start rapping about being 'thug' and all that. Its just ridiculous, purely ridiculous. Make music for what it is!!!

plank
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28 Feb 2008 10:35 PM

My turn lol i really like that just being you is always better

lets see as a kid i was always moving back and forth never was at the same school more than a year till about 8th grade but always loved rap i was that white kid that always tried to hang with the best at school rappin in the corner at lunch needless to say ive always loved rap hell back then everyone did though . lost a good friend one night on the strip at 19 when my friend was shot for reppin the wrong click yes i repped shyt to ya know hell nothin big but enough to make me realize my life aint right 9/11 came so i enlisted in the army and i beleive that completly changed my life but who knows if for better or worse i lost some good friends in iraq i still think about them all the time hell to be honest i cant stop thinking of them not that i want to just a no peace no sleep type of thing anyways im done talking about that but as far as hiphop when i got outta the army i reignited the old flames and still rap ive takin it alot further than ever and i believe music for me is an escape from my life and my emotions as well as an expresion of them so here i am an x soldier pushin 30 i work my dick in the dirt everyday im in the process of a divorce and also in a relationship with another chick ( long story ) i have two kids and to be honest being me isnt great im usually miserable i cant sleep i get headaches from panickattacks i try to pretend i dont have.... the only thing im really good at anymore is pretending im not miserable so maybe im not keeping it real who knows hell who cares as for you ....i envy you it sounds like your happy with yourself and thats always a good thing not to mention your tutorials are life saving and very much appreciated....plank
beside
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03 Mar 2008 12:37 PM

what you're saying is right nfx

when i started rapping i always said to me to be real

because then you rap about real things and real problems

not an invented background story or things you never would do

i have a lot enemys in rap game and they always rap about beating me up

or even killing me!!!

but when they see me or when i catch them alone, then they are scared chicks

so i think its better to be yourself and not to build an image of what you're not

because there is always someone who knows your true identity

Aero Soul
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19 Mar 2008 03:13 AM

strange that everyone here agrees to nfx's posting.. everybody seems to think exactly the same way.. where are all those actors that I see when Im leaving my flat? strange, strange
Smoothe Entertainment
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26 Mar 2008 10:43 PM

True ish Rite Here Haha
2nd Man
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14 Apr 2008 11:05 AM
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What i think is amazing, is that this one blog out of the 5 is the most discussed one, the others barely get a look, but every1 has an opinion on this one.
i'd also like to relate every1 to the KRS-1 lecture at temple university (http://www.warbeats.com/Forums/tabid/59/view/topic/postid/40363/forumid/35/tpage/1/Default.aspx), he explains all about the psychy of hip-hop and the beginning of hip-hop
and strangely hip-hop is actually about being some1 your not, "detaching yourself from a history you didnt create" (not sure if thats his exact words). and it may seem like im disagreein with NFX, but im not.
hip-hop is an expression, "I Am", expressin who you truly are, regardless of where your from or your background. with hip-hop you ignore that, you ignore stereotypes, and you be who you beleive you are.
i really recommend watching the KRS1 lecture, the theory of unknowing is mind blowing
NFX
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15 Apr 2008 01:46 PM

Hip hop aint dead but it aint what it used to be either.

"detaching yourself from a history you didn't create" might also be expressed as "you have the power to manifest your own destiny"

You can be anything you want to be. And you should be what you want to be. The tough part is being able to get past what you think is expected of you and listening to that voice inside. because until you can follow that true voice you can not truly manifest whats in your heart.

Consider the scenario where 6 people gang up on an individual and beat them so bad the person dies. Individuually you could argue that of those 6, they all know killing is wrong and would not have gone so far if not in a group.

I've been situations with my boys where I did stuff I knew was wrong because I didn't want to punk out.

I see that same image being lived out daily by kids in the neighborhood. It's hard for young folks NOT to look up to an image they think is appealing and start leaning in that direction. If it's a negative image, God help them. Hip hop is littered with negative images IMO, but I'm also smart enough to know better.

Since I was a teen, I had this image of the man I wanted to become. That guy smoked weed, treated women as objects for physical needs only, worked as little as possible, saw nothing wrong in "minor crimes" etc... Thats what i saw as cool. And I almost got there.

But I'm also a thinker and when I did things and honestly thought about it, I knew I was doing wrong. At some point I decided it was wrong for me be something in my outer self that was not the same as my inner self.

It's still a struggle for me to be 100% the "real" me. I'm only human after all, but I noticed that the more I move in that direction the more positive things happen around me. And I realized that once you listen and follow that inner voice - some might even say God's voice - you will find things come easier and your life will be happier.

Taylor Barclay
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15 Apr 2008 04:03 PM

^ So true.. THAT IS REAL TALK.
Tzuky
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29 May 2008 06:13 AM

this "True - Fake" thing is going man.... NFX is right... i thin that in this world we have too much grown people that are thinkin like kids... when we talk about music... errbody is gangsta husla.. killa drug dilla... lol and its funny...... but lets face it... if a rapper is rich and rap about his money... people say that he is have nothing else to rap for... if he says his a gangsta... the people say he is not... thats.... i dont understand this whole thing myself... but im thinkin the good music is good... so i like the new artists and i really dont care if they are gangsters or no... the beats are good the music makes you move... so its aiight... i also like for example Immortal Technique and Jedi Mind Tricks... hard lyrics... inspired from the real life...... im tryin to say that the music these days is just to entertain you, not to make you feel or see somthink... thats what i think about tha rap music today... in real life... yeah if you are not true you practicly aint nobody... you ain the person you are coping and you aint yourself... so you aint ish... aint that right? but about tha music i really think that we just have to forget about that real-fake thing... the only thing that i hate about rap today is that some rappers and some producers are making music not they like it and feel it but how the radio and TV likes it... as DMX says "Stop Been Greedy" ....what i meen is... look at timbaland... i love his style and his music... but not today... in the past was different.. it was good... and now just aint nothning on my opinion...

Im talkin a lots of crap until i get to the point but i hope you all will understand what im tryin to say...

and one more think... as errbody hear says... aint nothin more important in real life than just to be yourself!!!
Tzuky
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29 May 2008 06:18 AM

lol i my spellin sucks... lol "As errbody HEAR(here) says" lol at least it will be funny... please forgive me :)
LukasS
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07 Jul 2008 07:04 AM
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im a young person and its complicated for me to do what i do without influences from outside. its complicated to me to tell who i am(i just can tell i never lied or told stories about me that are not true). and its funked up! im 15 years old and i really need a therapy lol i dont understand this world but words like you wrote here help to understand i think and thats what you make a "mentor" or things like that. making me write this here right now.
"no homo" like the gangstas would say ,just props. the first time ive seen a tutorial (yesterday) i knew its an intelligent person who talks there.

PROPS TO YOU NFX -to the person behind the computer

ps: thanks to the internet for making it able to say things like that haha
Knowledge.
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08 Jul 2008 07:03 AM

what NFX said up there.. (i would quote it but i dont c the button)
is some real funkin talk!
mala mia
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15 Jul 2008 01:55 PM

(Just a joke) Man I wear baggy clothes (I'm gangsta) In fact when I was 3 I had baggy diapers!!! (its just a joke people)

anyway now being serious here...

It just makes me sad to see kids and adults trying so hard to be something that they are not. and its sadder to see them trying so hard to imitate fake rappers and other fake people.

C Chill (Formerly CDubz)
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10 Oct 2008 02:11 PM

yo nfx this is a good message greatly appreciated so your half preacher half producer these days eh?
Knowledge.
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23 Nov 2008 01:22 PM

yeah... NFX = The Truth lol
Mike O (Emplex)
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25 Nov 2008 03:44 PM

New name eh? NFX AKA The Truth has entered the building haha, but mos def that is some REALLY REAL TALK goin on up there. Lookin at the big picture is what people miss out on most of the time an only look at the days they are currently living.

Morty Mars
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24 Jan 2009 05:12 PM

Well NFX... What is reality, what's being real. People spend their whole lives forging their identity. People do it in different ways. Some women just want kids. Some people want a certain career... Or they have a dream, or whatever. I think there's not a single person on earth who doesn't.. And some people just want money, and do what they can to achieve it.

Honestly humans tend to try to rationalize everything - especially when we act on instincts, we do what our reptile-half of our brain prompts us to, and then we rationalize it in any way we can. Not everyone is as connected to their instincts though, and even stuff like wanting making money is also a basic survival instinct...

Now art and creativiy also has its roots in that area of our brains, and that's why some of us can't help it we HAVE TO DO something creative, or we'll go crazy. I'm sure a lot of people feel that way. Now if someone has that need or that urge.. They'll probably explore a lot of options in their childhood years and take whatever option or event that leads them to picking 1 or 2 or infinite ways to do this, whether its hiphop, rapping, producing, singing, or drawing, or painting, writing books, or whatever. Stuff like dancing even does the same. Now that same creative need is also shown in a lot of other ways.. Generally when you pick up a craft and try to be the best you can be at it, you're doing something creative.

Now I love hiphop and I know what - I - think is real, and what I don't think is real, but if I was born in another age where there wasn't hiphop and I was pretty much the same (same genetic, social make up at least or something close to it), I'd probably find some other expression of self that I'd obssess with most of my life. It wouldn't even have to be something that's in the catagory of creative arts. It might as well be mathmatics, biology, or whatever.

A lot of people probably won't get what the hell I'm saying here cause I barerely understand this myself, being just a human being, but NFX, some of the feelings and thoughts you are talking about here sound to me like the usual stuff that happens in the adult mind when coming of age - getting older, getting wiser, going in a more positive direction. Some people go in a more negative direction but it's all really the same in the end so funk being real, as long as we can be happy, or content with what we do, and who we are.

(deep, I know).
Jae Phoenix (jay clk  Mister Clk)
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17 May 2009 09:06 PM

Good knowledge...Good image check. Believe it or not, there are more people who don't look "hip hop" that are. And real people can respect that. I have some of the same similarities in the business world. People look at me and think im a product of Affirmative Action. Until they see my personality, work ethic, morals, standards, integrity, GPA, references, family, house, etc.

never judge a book.... well,you know the rest
lazzzy
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18 May 2009 11:37 AM
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man i hate to go against "the god of wb" but i kno some people who act like you (not as in nfx) are not actin like you,or beiing your self,like wtflol u kno what im talkin bout,but i understand what cha mean jus pointin somin out
TWK_420
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19 May 2009 08:45 PM

I think thats true. But when writing lyrics you can write what you want. For instance, if you are broke as funk and write

"just hit me a lick, got ice a chain
and a fine ass bitch/ yeahuhh"

This will make the listener and you feel better. Writing is all about the mood you are in. If you want to tell a true story about your life, write about it. if you are feeling good and want to create some feel good vibes do it. Do what makes you happy. Just because you dont have a chain or a lac on 24's doesn't mean you cant use those lyrics, and turn around and in another song say broke as funk cant buy me a chain, got a piece of ish truck, and no money or fame. Its all about how you feel. If you sing all that ish and do a interview and be yourself all is well. Writing music and making music is about creating vibes. A good percentage of rappers pay to create a persona of something they aren't when in fact they could just rap about it and get on tv and be themselfs. It really makes no difference when listening to the song. But to some people that isn't keeping it real enough and its being fake. W.e. i guess.
Frank RosaR
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03 Jun 2009 10:09 AM

Hey NFX, that was was incredible stuff you wrote there. not only incredible, but powerful for those with a sense of "realness" to understand that life ain't about impressing others. Whatever makes me happy makes me happy and my children, then I'm a 100% satisfied with the outcome. Being a turntablist in the late 80's early 90's i've noticed things have changed but the core of the music is still the same. Being PR brother the grew up in the ghetto, i always remind myself that I am not the ghetto. I've been fiend'n to learn this FLStudio stuff and it's coming along nicely, slowly but surely.
I've learned a lot from you and with sincere humility, I thank you. In the beginning I wanted to race to learn this thing and be one of those cats that have their stuff on YouTube but with patience and keeping it 'real with the music and myself, i know that the end product will be satisfying.
Keep dropping jewels and for those that say you're boring, well i guess they need to check their inner self to find out if they're really comfortable under their skin or is it their corrupted mind feeding them false information. Everything must come from the heart and that's the same way I go about my music...Peace.
MearsAndDraco
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04 Jun 2009 04:22 PM

respect to that
K-Ta-Klysm
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16 Jun 2009 08:01 AM
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I thought you'll say something like: be yourself when making beats, stop trying to be Timbo, Polow, Shawty Redd, soulja boy... ok I'll stop now. LOL
But yes, truth is told in your post, there are too many wannabes, and it's not only bad for us, it's bad for them to.
ronboe
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19 Jun 2009 05:33 AM
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Thank You for the philosophical post NFX, helpful to get the bearing on course.
Dan  Vondrak
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29 Jul 2009 06:37 PM
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Truly inspiring!
DC_Tek
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30 Jul 2009 12:13 PM

I agree 100%
dj mvp
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15 Sep 2009 10:02 AM

Man, this is food for thoughts! I really didnt feel spending that 15$, it could have gone in liquor in a club. I am glad I spend it here!
jack_in_the_box
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29 Oct 2009 08:54 AM

Amen.
Razorian
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06 Nov 2009 01:01 AM

Your a really cool guy! You teach and help us everyday. You have my respect and i don't give a crap if you don't potray a thuged out image because you don't have to. You have something bigger and better on the inside. But, you are a playa. You are the best playa of all cause you are real and yourself.
Man, I've learnt so much from ya, and you don't even have to do any of this that you do. You just do it cause your a good person.
jamesLL
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16 Nov 2009 03:36 PM

I've been coming to this site and leaching off of the downloads section for quite some time, to be honest, I've never uploaded anything. Also I've never taken the time to indulge in your informative tutorials, for "i know it all". In making these assumptions and doubting your credibility I have drastically deprived myself of knowledge which has existed I'm for sure for some time. I regret now upon reading your post on this date and I'd have to say you've a mighty fine website here devoted to a wonderful cause.

I did purchase a v.i.p. membership where I acquired a number of drum kits and the like, I had the money and I'm sure you deserved it. Your message here is deep. Everyday I find myself submerged into the subculture that IS todays world and the materialistic fashion that has draped over the human mind. I see my friends, friends of my friends, family and everyone else just like we all do, clothed of course, and Each LABEL has an IMAGE. If you see me you will say I am a white male. These descriptions you would give would be accurate because that is my image. That is what you perceive based on your experiences and thought processes. If my music is wack, if my style is lame or my delivery is off, that's because your preference is based on other things. These "things" are whats "accepted" by mainstream and these "things" are Images. Gimmicks, hooks, what ever you wanna call 'em it's all perception. A rapper can be a gangster and not be a thug, so a thug can be a rapper and not a gangster. What is a thug? What's a gangster? Tell me, whats a rapper? If you ask me I'll tell you, chances are you'll agree. It just depends on who you talk to and where you are.

Age is major definition of label and image. If You see a female with a toddler, you know shes a mother, unless your blind, depending on her Image, your perception and preference you then decide if shes attractive. These decisions are made possible by your experiences that make up your very existence. At birth you began your life. From the time of your birth till now as your reading this, is the whole sum of your years. Some you may not remember but you did experience and some you experienced and remember. But all of which, while your walking through the mall noticing the milf at the food court and smiling as she feeds her toddler, alter your perception. So NFX Labels and Images are a necessity because how else would we describe things? The key is to include everything when perceiving things. To judge without truly judging. It's hard for us as human beings to grasp the concept because its so vast but it does help to ease the stress.

For as long as time there has been a hierarchy in existence. Atoms to Molecules, Cells to Organisms. The basic structure of life is a hierarchical structure. When you make a beat, you can't make it all at once, or can you? It wouldn't surprise me at all. My point is, there will forever be fundamental perceptions because without there can not be image. Anyway, you gotta dope site here, and I notice you fixed the bugs. I spit knowledge when i get the chance but I dabble in everything, or try to anyway. Might just by another round of v.i.p. if my card works. Load some of my tunes up too just for kicks. I'm not sure how live this post is, but I was waitin for a mp3 to export out of my warezed ass fL haaahhaaaa

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