what is the average tempo or normal tempo for a song?
for example what is the tempo for the best songs youve heard past and present...

average hip hop roughly has a tempo 80-95 crunk songs tend to be slower low 70s

i usually like my temos to be in the 80-95 as well, anything else just sounds too fast or too slow for me. IF your were thinking of going faster or slower do it. doing something different is what music is all about.

80-95 for me to

80-110. But once i made beat with 160 and it wos my beast beat

some people will do double time and instead of 85 they'll have it at 170, because its easier to do fills

It all depends on the individual.