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Filters (of perception) Explained

by Administrator (NFX) on 25 Jan 2010 04:20 PM

You have more than 2 million bits of sensory information around you to process at any second. You are only capable of processing about 140 of those bits.

These 140 bits are the same basic bits we are conditioned to experience. Because of this what we look for, we find.

Do you see conspiracies? Are you held down by The Man? Do people look down on you for no reason? Do you believe you will never understand music theory?

Have you ever wanted something like a specific pair of shoes, a type of jacket or make and model of car? Do you find that once you decide you want that item, you see it around a lot more than before? You have given yourself a different focus - or filter - to perception.

However, most of our focus points are buried in our unconscious mind. We see things as we are conditioned to see them by our life experiences and environment. The good news is we can recondition ourselves. Change our filters to be more in tune with our wants and needs.

Say you grow up in a place where most people are struggling to get by. You learn certain focus patterns and embed them into your consciousness. Maybe you see poverty around you and your focus points are built on that. The occasional experience you get with wealth might be negative or stressful:

    - Your landlord looking for the rent money.
    - The boys on the block looking to jack someone with money.
    - The dirty looks that wealthy people seem give you.
    - Getting easy money by selling drugs and poisoning the people around you.
    - People in fancy cars drive like jerks

All these ways of seeing wealth determine what filters your brain will use when thinking about wealth. Remember not all of them are conscious.

Now on a conscious level you say you want to be wealthy. But subconsciously, you are thinking:

    - Having a lot of money is stressful for those around you with less
    - Money makes you a target
    - People with money don't give a shit about regular folk.
    - Money is the root of evil
    - I don't want to be a jerk driving a fancy car

Now say you grew up in a wealthy environment. Your subconscious perception would be completely different wouldn't it? The rich kid lives in the same reality as you, but sees it differently.

Do you think the impact on Diddy's son getting a Maybach (with a driver) for his 16th birthday, is more or less powerful than the ghetto kid getting a used Honda from his hardworking mother? It's pretty much the same event, but two very different perceptions depending on where your minds at.

The reason why this is important is because your subconscious has much more control of your potential and motivation than anything else. Getting wealthy with so much negative belief around money will make getting rich much harder for you (if thats your dream).

Maybe subconsciously you think "rich is bad", so your subconscious makes a decision for you: Be bad and rich, or stay good and poor is what yoru subconscious believes.

Consciuosly are you a good or bad person? If you say good, then your conscious and subconscious may be at odds and guess which one wins?

I'm using wealth as an example, but this applies to anything you really desire.

For example, do you see people with a higher sense of morals and ethics as "goody two shoes", "square" or "suckas"?

People from Tupac to Napoleon Hill and other great thinkers of all time basically have said the same thing - "What you believe, you can achieve", "You will become are what you truly think you are", "The universe sends back to you what you put out to it".

But remember, it's not only your beliefs but your actions. If you act like a thug you're going to be treated and live like a thug. Is that what you want? If not, then don't act like a thug!

I've been a programmer for a long time and I used to dress very casual. Most programmers don't deal with the public and don't need to dress up. I wore a lot of jeans, polo shirts, sneakers everyday. I would never be caught looking like a preppie jerk.

One day I read that you should dress for the position you want in life, not the position you have. I started wearing different clothes. A nice pair of slacks and a long sleeve button down shirt. Some clean leather shoes. I looked at what my bosses were wearing and emulated that. It worked. I soon got promoted and in less than a year I was making double. Not only did I gain more money, but more respect. I was able to drop the belief that I would become a preppie jerk and improve my life. Maybe some peers see me and think I'm a preppie jerk, but I know I'm not and it feels good to be seen as the professional I know I am. it wasn't all about the outer change either. I would get up in the morning and see myself as a more professional person on the outside and on the inside.

Trust me, if you are young and think you have it all figured out, you will learn someday that you don't. Sometimes our beliefs limit us and when they do, we have to adjust them in order to get to the next level. Take my advice and try to understand this now rather than later because it will not get easier and you won't get that wasted time back.


 



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19 Comments for Filters (of perception) Explained

Royal Beatz 07
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25 Jan 2010 08:02 PM

So true. The 'secret' is to focus on positivity, instead of negativity. It doesn't really matter what everyone else around you is doing, it's up to you to set an example. If everyone around you is treating people badly, and/or unfairly, is it ok for you to do the same?
No. The truth is, it's your life, and you need to focus on what you do, not what others do.
Just the other night I went to the store to get some stuff. As I was leaving the parking lot a pulled up behind a car that was stopped. He appeared to be lost(to me at least) I went to pull up to his side, and ask him if he needed help. He wound up parking, and I slowed down, just to see if he was in need of help. As I pulled away he got out of his car.
I knew he was mad. I figured that he thought I was looking for trouble, or irritated by his actions. I reversed my car, and he walked up to my passenger side window. I rolled it down and asked if he needed help.
He was an older man in his early forties. His demeanor was agitated, and ready for trouble. He asked why I was looking at him in the way I was. I kept a calm demeanor and explained to him I thought he looked lost, and was only looking to help. I continued to aks if he was indeed in search of help or direction.
He was was quiet. His face relaxed. He asked me if I was serious, and I said yes. I once again asked if he was in need of any assistance. He smiled and said he was ok, and put his hand out. I shook his hand, and he thanked me, and walked away.
I felt good that I kept a positive mind state. I was able to diffuse the situation and take away the anger that so many people are easily a target of. He was wound up and ready to brawl. Me going back and talking to him calmly set his mood at ease.
It's little things like that in which I strive to acheive.
Walking on this earth can be tough, but it's really what you make of it. I feel that it's up to me to create my reality, and if I stay positive(which is hard, and not always the end result), I can make my life what it should be... An enjoyable experience, for me and all those around me.
So my point is, next time you see a confontation brewing, maybe you can try taking a different approach. It can make all the difference. From my experience, being such a hot head, pointing fingers at each other only causes more problems. An eye for an eye only leads to a blind battle.
verzatile
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26 Jan 2010 10:14 AM

this is a great post . . nice job nfx
Bash Hakka Boom
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26 Jan 2010 04:07 PM

Nice personal insight NFX , it's all to easy to get stuck in a frame of mind without even realising it.

They say " Youth is wasted on the young " and it's something that you can agree with once you get to a certain age.
I'm not being derogatory to the younger generations it's just that you look back at the chances you didn't take or the opportunities which passed you by and want to kick yourself simply for not trying.

Hindsight is always 20/20 .
LBSMusic
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27 Jan 2010 02:56 PM

Very good Article NFX, basically people should just learn to move their perspective on things.
Its all about how you look at things.
DuKe
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29 Jan 2010 06:27 AM

hi there.

i agree with the fact, that it's up to ourselfs on how we see us. and thats the way other see us. i wouldn't say that it's important for everyone to change the focus, but it's important to know the power of it and that you can acheiv great things with it.

to have a such focus like NFX was describing makes our daily life easyer. otherwise we must be critical with all of our desicions. and that would makes us cracy. i decide for my self to focus on positiv things i want in my life. and i am a happy man now.

when i was a teenager i was putting myself alot if times in the "victim" position. so, i wasn't able to change things (positiv). because i thought i was the "victim"- things just happend to me. something after my 20th birthday i realized, that i have more power then i thought i have. my potential was growing as my selfconfidence was growing.

sorry, english is not my nativ language. hope you readers could understand what i tryed to say.
Administrator (NFX)
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29 Jan 2010 09:43 AM

Duke, you bring up a great point with your "victim" story. We had a user on here last year that was always a victim and it drove me crazy. He ended up in a halfway house after breaking up with his GF and trying to kill himself. A sad story, he made himself a victim at every turn.

People generally file events in their life into two groups and it falls under "Cause and Effect".

When something happens to you did you CAUSEit to happen or was it the EFFECTof someone else's actions?

If you find yourself on the "effect" side more often, then you fall into the victim category.

If you find yourself in the "cause" side more often, then you are usually taking responsibility for your actions.

Some examples:

1) You tag up a wall and a few days later you get arrested. Are you mad at the old lady that turned you in (effect) or are you mad because you made a stupid decision to tag up the wall (cause)?

2) Your computer gets infected by a virus from downloading some warez on rapidshare. Are you mad at the scumbag virus maker (effect) or are you mad that you couldn't resist the temptation of getting a $500 program for free (cause)?

3) Your parents find a bag of weed in your room. Do you get mad at them because they grounded you (effect) or do you get mad at yourself for doing something stupid (cause)?

We do this all the time. There are somethings you might find it hard to be the cause of, but so many things in life we are too quick to blame on others. When you are on the "effect" side, you lose all power in your life. Unfortunately, a lot of people prefer not to take responsibility.

Conversely when you are on the "cause" side, you give yourself tremendous power in your life. With power comes responsibility.

I find that as I got older I started seeing myself as the cause to a lot of more my problems. I believe when we can see things from the "cause" perspective, we will use our power, be more aware and avoid making bad decisions. This in turn leads to a happier and more productive life.

SP
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29 Jan 2010 10:42 AM

I used to do that same victim thing alot when i was young, i kinda copied it from my mother (who is ALWAYS a victim, even if she's actually doing fine)
When i was doing good no one seemed to pay attention to me as a lil kid, but when i got in a fight and got hurt or something suddently everyones world stopped and they all came to help me. i kinda stayed with that in my entire childhood. glad i dont do it now tho.

and NFX, at your examples about wich category a person would fall into when he gets mad at certain objects in problems. well, i cant qute fit in there. if an old lady called the cops on me i'd be mad i chose that particular wall to tag up, knowing the risk of the old lady seeing me was there. if my parents find weed in my room, i get mad cause i was dumb enough to pick a bad hiding spot. and the virus, well, there i just get mad at the virus maker, cause seriously, whats the point of making a virus that does nothing else but kill peoples computers? in what possible way could that help the virus maker?

And lastly, about the clothes. is that story about how it went really true? cause i havnt bought any clothes in 1.5 years, my sneakers are beaten up, my clothes are all baggy and hiphopish (wich i used to like, but hate right now) and i only get a haircut like once a month. (dont judge, i do all of it because i want to invest a maximum amount into my music). i should really change my act then 0o
Tryder
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29 Jan 2010 06:50 PM
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"Laws Of Attraction" - Stay Positive My People...

I use to work in a factory-like environment for years! and people would always ask me why I dressed up nice(most of the time). I'm the kind of person who wears dress clothes one day, rugged the next and so forth. I've always felt business oriented so, it showed and it shows. But don't get it twisted, I do love my street gear! That's what gives me that 'buck the world' attitude and helps me to zone out and to forget what others think. I'm just using this example because of what NF spoke of. I know what he means and I do know what it feels like...I just want people to know that you can feel and be rich without the bling.

Gd Feed NF!
justindeol1
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30 Jan 2010 06:05 PM

very interesting take on things, makes lots of sense
people tend to hate what they don't understand
Administrator (NFX)
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01 Feb 2010 09:27 AM

SP: yes my clothes story is 100% true. It's funny how we as humans look at ourselves. There was a time in my life when I would see a picture of me and feel disconnected from my own image. Like I didn't know who that was. I think it would be similar when I looked in the mirror everyday.

Understand that I like to dress comfortable. On weekends I'll be wearing baggy shorts and a skull-laden t-shirt without a second thought. For me there was a turning point in my professional life that I needed to make, and part of that was not only acting the part, but looking the part. I spent a lot of time fighting that just because I was afraid that I wouldn't look cool or fit in with a certain crowd. So my mind wasn't letting me get there.

And hey, I understand the need to fit in. There is nothing wrong with it because we are a social species and thats part of our survival instinct. it only becomes a problem when it holds us back from success that we know we can get but can't let go of certain beliefs to get there.
Tryder
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01 Feb 2010 09:54 PM
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One more say on this if that's o.k. wit'cha!...I understand that we are all raised up differently so not everyone feels the same. But you shouldn't have to dress up nice because someone wants or told you to. Feeling successful should move you to want to dress up nice - PERIOD! It's a rich feeling - nothing to do with money.
Some people need to be told on how to dress because they just don't get it. They never had fathers or guidance. They're stuck in that comfort zone and have too much pride...But we don't have to always dress nice - there's a time & place for everything! You should know when and when not to dress appropriately. Especially while living in a world where we are stereo-typed(sad to say)!

MELLo D
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16 Feb 2010 11:55 AM

NFX IS LIKE THE DAD I never had!!!! Always helpful...It doesnt get any better than free love....People charge arms and legs for fractions of info this guy provides!!!! MY game is much better becuzz of you man!!
SP
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16 Feb 2010 02:14 PM

^ Lmao, he aint that old xD
corporatethief
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28 Feb 2010 10:27 AM

awh man this is real intesting were was this post last year when i was studying sociology
Nemesis
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06 Mar 2010 01:07 AM
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This is a beautiful article. I used to complain a lot, think very negatively, talk very negatively, and view wealthy people as evil, greedy, and vain. Then I read Feel the Fear and Do it Anyway, I feel like a commercial but I highly recommend it to anyone who finds themselves in the same boat.

I went to USC, and coming from the ghetto, I had a certain filter. I felt so inferior, I would look around and see these spoiled white kids and assume that they come from wealth and had a wonderful family and happy childhood and many other things I didn't. I had a chip on my shoulder because I viewed myself as the mexican from the hood. I thought I can't possibly get better grades than them. I got rid of that racist mindset and learned that people would only view my that way if I viewed myself that way. So I dressed differently. I learned to realize that everyone has struggles, even this rich girl I know that complained that her life was too happy, lol. She viewed the world from a different perspective (filter), and I learned a lot from her, and many other people who had very different backgrounds.

Lately though, I've really been struggling to stay positive. I'm unemployed and I blame myself for not being good enough in interviews or just not applying enough or what not, but at the same time I'm so frustrated that this has to be so hard due to the recession. I feel like I can't compete against the people with years of experience. I'm getting more and more down on myself. I hate the negative thoughts going on in my head. I silence them but then I feel numb. I feel like such a helpless victim and I hate myself for it. Any advice?
Tryder
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06 Mar 2010 12:58 PM
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Nem!
Try keeping your mind busy by learning something new that you need to improve on. Whether It's music or whatever! It will make you feel good because you gain something that will benefit you in some way. I highly recommend anything that has to do with music. So when those hard times come around the corner, just focus on your dreams(goals), and accomplishments(milestones completed).

GP Studio
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20 Mar 2010 04:44 AM
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wow did you take some psychology classes in collage? Great insight, when you get the book on life written Ill buy it!
GP Studio
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20 Mar 2010 04:46 AM
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lol I should have gone to college then I might know how to spell it
Nemesis
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20 Mar 2010 01:09 PM
http://www.facebook.com/jorgeros
Indeed, great advice, wait, who are you asking? I'm assuming Tryder right?
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